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Addiction Freedom - The guilt and shame of the game!

Undoubtedly, participating in addictive behavior not only causes pain, but causes pain in the people around you too. However, do not let the previous actions of either yourself or others to the last string and force you to live in fear of the future. The past is the past, over, and life on it does not serve anyone well. Live in the present moment, be gentle with yourself, forgive yourself and learn to love himself. "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today, today is a gift!"

Not a big secret that he feels guilt and shame for the pain they've inflicted on their loved ones. But in many cases the blame and shame is much deeper than that. In fact, a large percentage of people who suffer from addiction is blamed for the behavior of their dysfunctional families. For example: "My father abused me physically, but I deserved it!" Or, "My mother verbally abused me and told me I was worthless, but he's right! "This feeling of guilt not only creates victimization, but also provides a pretext to continue the normal behavior. And, until they are ready to see the truth about her family's dysfunctional behavior and free your self of it, nothing in your life going to change!

Therefore, if you've been blaming yourself, it is likely to be questioned at this time as to whether he should be punished for their actions. Well guess what, your right! God does not punish people, we punish ourselves. God is a loving and forgiving being. So if you thought you would blame and punish yourself before God takes hold of you, you can stop now! We have character flaws, not full of shortcomings, and certainly not powerless! On the contrary, we are children of God, and he has given us all the power to create happiness, love and abundance in our lives we want. If you do not feel comfortable with the term God, you can use the term higher power, universe, or state of higher consciousness. No matter what term you choose, the most important aspect is to unite with your higher consciousness and the source of unconditional love. The truth be told, love really conquer all! So, there is nothing more powerful than unconditional love. So, you must love your addiction, do not hate! Now I do not mean that you should love it and continue! On the contrary, you have to dissolve their habitual behavior. And at the same time to give thanks for what may seem paradoxical, is also a key component to the beating because the more you hate your addiction will become stronger! It is easy to become bitter and angry about the situation, and to use it as an excuse to retire! And if you adopt the mentality of an angry, bitter, a victim for life of addiction, what are you going to attract in the future? Let me answer that for you, a whole herd of bitterness, anger, victims of addiction who use their self-incrimination as an excuse to retire the camaraderie of a group! And if you want to spend the rest of his days in the basement of a church complaining about how his life is fucked, that's their prerogative. But you do not have to take the victimization asking why me. Take the road to get back on the horse! Just because you were shot down does not mean you can not run to the line Goal! Refusing to be the wounded soul and aspire to being the gentle warrior! Enjoy the crisis as a spiritual lesson and ask what you can learn from it. Think about it for a moment! Would you be taking steps to become a stronger, more secure, and loving person is finding your purpose in life if it had not been put this drug addiction is painful? Sometimes we have to wade through the puddle of mud to reach the garden of roses!

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Sincerely,

David Ropp

The Addiction Freedom Coach

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As a life coach, Roppo has helped addicted clients learn the secrets to overcoming addiction, and he has established his unique five-step process as a potential benchmark for recovery. His success has overwhelmingly convinced him that the mainstream approach to addiction is fundamentally amiss because formal treatment programs attempt to defeat the symptoms rather than address the core issue.